Lessons.

I don't like wasting time. I've gotten to a point in my life where I know what I want, and what I have to do to get it. I've also learned quite a few lessons in the past year. For instance:

• I could continue to buy cool stuff (home theatre systems, computers, speakers, watches, etc.), stuff that says "Hey, I have money, and I have no issue with spending it," but you know what? That only goes so far. At some point I've got to look at my personality and find out why some people I care about don't care about me in the same manner.
• I used to get insecure about the littlest things. My confidence was fairly lacking about this time last year, but by changing simple facets like the people I hang out with, the clothes I wear, and just keeping a positive demeanor about life, I've turned into a confident 23 year old. I know I've got a great personality, a bright future, and good looks to match (please don't mistake this for arrogance), and honestly, if a girl doesn't want to be a part of my life, then so be it. I'm not going to go so far as to say it's her loss, but I have a lot to offer in the way of a friendship/relationship.
• Being selfish is probably one of the worst characteristics a person can have, or develop, for that matter. I don't have many friends, but the ones that are there for me are the ones I appreciate the most. It's not like I'm asking you to give me a lung, or a thousand dollars; all I ask is for a phone call once in a while, or an invite to hang out sometime. To me, the little things matter more than you'll ever know.

Now, these are just a few of the many lessons I've learned. By no means do I have all the answers, nor do I claim to, but I want to share what I've gained, because not only could it help you, but it helps me reaffirm my beliefs and the way I've lived my life.